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turps ([personal profile] turps) wrote2003-05-08 04:13 pm

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I've just been checking my e-mail lists and am astounded and pretty pissed at one just now. It's a TS list and they're doing the whole who's at fault thing *again* Listing times that Blair was mean to Jim, and vice versa. How old is that now?

That's one thing I dislike about the TS fandom, that you're supposed to pledge allegiance to one or the other. Join a list and you can guarantee that someone will ask are you a Blair or Jim babe.

I admit that most people will have a preference, but does that mean just because you like Jim you have to dislike Blair? Of course not! Most fans know this, yeah, they'll say that they prefer whoever, but wouldn't think about pulling the other one down. I just don't get if you like TS that you can dislike one of the main characters.

How anyone can go onlist and list incidents that Jim was 'mean' to Blair just makes me think WTF. These are two *adult* men, they don't have to go round justifying their behaviour. They make mistakes, so what? So does everyone. Deal with it.

[identity profile] lky.livejournal.com 2003-05-08 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I've wondered about this as well. I've seen the lists go over this issue and it never sparks any plots for me, so I don't dwell on it. I *do* love to talk about how different the two of them are, that gives me lots of ideas for scenes.

Live and learn. :)
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[identity profile] turps33.livejournal.com 2003-05-14 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with you totally.

Jim and Blair *are* different, there's no getting away from that, and it's good to write/think/talk about those differences. But that certainly doesn't mean pulling one down to idolize the other.

I don't get involved in those discussions either, some people will be obsessive about their man despite what anyone says. It's a shame as it's the fanatics like that that scare some fans away.

I was talking to someone who dabbled in the fandom but left after seeing a list war about Blair cutting his hair. Now that's stupidity as far as I'm concerned.