Exactly? I want to whine on 'why me?' but at the same time I try not to whine too much, despite how much I want to.

I'd love to know why men seem to forget how to clean while at home. I know James can, if I ask him to do stuff he will, eventually. The thing is if I don't ask it would be left. Mugs on the floor, dirty clothes where they land and he just doesn't seem to see them. They blend into the background. It's insane.

*hugs back* Thank you, especially for letting me vent about the housework thing :)