Thank you for your story. It helps me see that in some situations people will stay with people that abuse them. I guess circumstance is a big factor.

Yes, I think that's a big factor.

It must be so difficult if you love someone, to make that decision to leave the second man . I know it's possible to love someone but not their behaviour. My mam has a drinking problem, and while I love her, I hate how she behaves.

You do know how it feels. *hugs*

I'm glad that you have the ability to see him as a friend now while still maintaining mistrust. That seems very wise to me.

We have a daughter together so I feel I must be nice, but it's really not a huge hardship.

I hope you've achieved happiness in your life now. Thanks again for sharing.

Thanks for listening.

I hope your friend is okay.