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Dec. 5th, 2019 03:28 pmToday, Costa are giving away free Terry's Chocolate orange muffins if you're called Terry, Terri, Teri. Great you'd think, but they're only doing so in four locations, and as much as they sound delicious, I'm not about to travel to York -- the nearest location -- to get a freebie.
Good things.
Thank you so much
pensnest for the lovely hats and sparkly snail tree ornament. I was over the moon with them, and the snail is on the tree right now. Photos to come when I actually post them. James says thank you, too. Especially as the parcel was also addressed to him and he got to open a parcel for once.
Also from Pen, there's a sparkly popslash ficathon happening here.
Also,
wenchpixie is running a bandom ficathon here.
I need to give attention to both as I just saw the posts skimming, as things have been busy lately, so sorry in advance when I overload everyone with comments when I catch up. By which I especially mean, sorry, Dine!
RL wise, things got much better for James, the med changes helping, as was the counselling, and then yesterday was a day. Starting when we drove all the way to Newcastle for his limb centre appointment first thing in the morning, only to find we were 24 hours early, then he thought his OC health appointment for work was today, but was actually yesterday. Which suggests somehow he mixed up the two dates in his head. His work couldn't fit him in yesterday once he realised, so he can't see their doctor until the 27th, and they won't let him back until he's been to that appointment. So, on one hand, he's got all of Christmas off, on the other, that mix up pushed him back mental health-wise big time. Thankfully OC health have been great and this set back suggests that it probably would have been a little early to go back anyway if one mistake sends him spiralling. So, new plan is to be phased back for over New Year, when they're really busy, and have next year as a fresh start.
We also missed the funeral of one of our neighbours due to being at the limb center this morning. She was such a lovely older lady, and I'm going to miss talking to her.
But more good things, I saw Charlie's Angels and enjoyed it a lot, our tree is up and the house is looking very sparkly, and tonight I'm off to sibs dinner with Chris and Kayleigh. So really, things could be a lot worse.
Good things.
Thank you so much
Also from Pen, there's a sparkly popslash ficathon happening here.
Also,
I need to give attention to both as I just saw the posts skimming, as things have been busy lately, so sorry in advance when I overload everyone with comments when I catch up. By which I especially mean, sorry, Dine!
RL wise, things got much better for James, the med changes helping, as was the counselling, and then yesterday was a day. Starting when we drove all the way to Newcastle for his limb centre appointment first thing in the morning, only to find we were 24 hours early, then he thought his OC health appointment for work was today, but was actually yesterday. Which suggests somehow he mixed up the two dates in his head. His work couldn't fit him in yesterday once he realised, so he can't see their doctor until the 27th, and they won't let him back until he's been to that appointment. So, on one hand, he's got all of Christmas off, on the other, that mix up pushed him back mental health-wise big time. Thankfully OC health have been great and this set back suggests that it probably would have been a little early to go back anyway if one mistake sends him spiralling. So, new plan is to be phased back for over New Year, when they're really busy, and have next year as a fresh start.
We also missed the funeral of one of our neighbours due to being at the limb center this morning. She was such a lovely older lady, and I'm going to miss talking to her.
But more good things, I saw Charlie's Angels and enjoyed it a lot, our tree is up and the house is looking very sparkly, and tonight I'm off to sibs dinner with Chris and Kayleigh. So really, things could be a lot worse.
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Date: 2019-12-05 03:38 pm (UTC)I'm glad to hear that James is doing better, and hopefully will continue to do so, and return to owrk in great shape.
I wonder if Costa will expand the availability of the Terry's muffins? because while it's too far for you to drive now, don't you deserve a freebie? yes, yes, you do.
and now I'm craving a chocolate orange - I should try to track one down
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Date: 2019-12-05 04:09 pm (UTC)Everyone agrees it's better if he's 100% ready to go back before going back. One of his problems has been going back before he was actually ready and then having to go sick again. Which causes worse issues in the long run in terms of sickness.
I wonder if Costa will expand the availability of the Terry's muffins?
They should do, as you're right, I do deserve a freebie. Especially so as people keep linking me to the offer not realising no stores nearby are taking part.
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Date: 2019-12-05 06:37 pm (UTC)Aww a snail! Sounds cute🥰
Being overloaded by comments from you is a good thing
Oh no! *sends him hugs* hopefully everything will be sorted at the appointment
*hugs*
Oh nice! I thought it looked good from the trailers! Yay tree and sparkles, have a nice time🖤
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Date: 2019-12-06 04:59 pm (UTC)It's a lovely sparkly snail. Pictures will be coming at some point.
Ah, you're lovely ♥
It was such a good film. Really, I've had a run of good films lately. No turkeys for a while.
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Date: 2019-12-05 08:27 pm (UTC)Yesterday sounds like very much a day! I hope the proper break, and then therapy etc., help James reset. Starting fresh in the new year sounds like a good plan.
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Date: 2019-12-06 04:55 pm (UTC)It was very much a day. Little did we know when we drove all the way past Newcastle in rush hour traffic, the day would get even worse.
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Date: 2019-12-05 09:32 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-06 04:49 pm (UTC)But yes, a sparkly house helps a lot. Though, I'm sure all the lights aren't helping our electricity bill.
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Date: 2019-12-06 05:53 am (UTC)I'm sorry to hear of the setback for James. I hope the additional time off will do him good and will give him new strength for the return.
And I'm sorry for the loss of your neighbor, too. But I hope you had a nice dinner out!
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Date: 2019-12-06 04:44 pm (UTC)It was a very frustrating setback as he's been doing so well lately. But, the extended time off could be a good thing in the end.
I had a lovely dinner, but with that one and the one tomorrow I need some plain food for a while next week.
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Date: 2019-12-07 12:48 am (UTC):)
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Date: 2019-12-08 05:49 pm (UTC)You're my kind of people!
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Date: 2019-12-07 04:58 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-08 05:48 pm (UTC)That is some Terry's muffin dedication!
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Date: 2019-12-07 08:51 pm (UTC)Poor James! It's so frustrating when you THINK you're better and then a setback like that shows how far you still have to go. He has all my sympathy!
I demand photos of your tree!
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Date: 2019-12-08 05:47 pm (UTC)Yeah, they do only sell the chocolate oranges at Christmas. You may be lucky and get a few leftovers in January, but after that they're not around until the end of the year.
It's so frustrating when you THINK you're better and then a setback like that shows how far you still have to go
That's one good thing I'm taking from this. If he had gone back and hit a bump I suspect he would have been right back to square one. At least this way he's at home and can talk through things with his counsellor and doctor.
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Date: 2019-12-08 07:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-07 09:16 pm (UTC)Many warm thoughts for James. Scheduling mix-ups are frustrating as hell.
<3
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Date: 2019-12-08 05:44 pm (UTC)It was such an annoying mix up too. If he'd have realised he needed to go to work that afternoon we could have easily stayed close to the hospital and waited a few hours. As it was we'd driven all the way home when he got the phone call and realised.
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Date: 2019-12-08 12:53 pm (UTC)(Stupid Costa).
Sorry you and James had a DAY, but hopefully the break for the holidays will be refreshing for him and get him onto a better, more even keel. I'm rooting for him, at any rate! As you know I know how hard it is to balance health and work.
Wasn't Charlie's Angels a ton of fun??? I'm so happy you enjoyed it too.
Have fun at dinner, and my condolences at your neighbor's passing.
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Date: 2019-12-08 05:41 pm (UTC)Stupid Costa indeed.
I agree with you, the break should do him a whole lot of good, especially as it's work that's said not to go back until that time, and it's not him making the decision.
It was an excellent film. I enjoyed it much more than I expected.
I did have fun, and thank you. She was a lovely lady and I used to enjoy a chat with her.
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Date: 2019-12-08 06:50 pm (UTC)I saw the costa thing and thought of you, but then I saw the locations and... well NOT GOOD ENOUGH tbh costa, not good enough.
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Date: 2019-12-28 11:13 am (UTC)I saw the costa thing and thought of you, but then I saw the locations and... well NOT GOOD ENOUGH tbh costa, not good enough.
I KNOW! Talk about offering treats and them snatching them back!