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It's mam's funeral tomorrow.

I don't want to go. I don't want to say goodbye. I don't think I can say goodbye. I'm dreading the whole day

Thank you to the people who sent flowers, cards, emails etc. I fully intend to say thank you/reply when I'm in a better place. Until then, thank you for thinking of me.

Crossposts: https://turps33.livejournal.com/1300821.html

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From:

wenchpixie

I am so, so sorry <3.

Please, if you haven't recently, go and get a drink of water.

From:

dine

do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself, hon. may you find the strength to get through, and the support of your loved ones to make it just a little easier. I'm thinking of you, and sending all my love

From:

i_amthecosmos

I don't remember most of dad's funeral. If you get your body to show up, that's all you can do sometimes. If the mind isn't there, it's all right.

From:

fairestcat

*hugs* I'm so sorry.

From:

tara

You don't have to say goodbye. She'll always be with you because she's part of you. Right now it's just the hole, I know, but the love and memories will always travel with you through life.

I wish I could do something to take the pain away. All I can say is that you are loved and I have been thinking of you every day. <3

From:

frausorge

*hugs*

From:

eglantiere

i'm so sorry, love. my thoughts are with you.

From:

sperrywink

Sending all my love and strength to you right now.

From:

venetia_sassy

*hugs you*

From:

ysabetwordsmith

I have some resources on dealing with grief:

https://ysabetwordsmith.dreamwidth.org/11046584.html

https://ysabetwordsmith.dreamwidth.org/11047617.html

Don't push yourself trying to respond to everything or keep up with everyday tasks beyond the essential. Take time to nurture yourself as much as possible.