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Oh, T., parental deaths are tough.

I had about 3 days to clear my dad's condo after his passing. Thankfully, my mom (who was his ex-wife) and three of my aunts helpede go thru his stuff and clean up his place.

It was weird AF. But, the thing that really messed me up was going thru his social media and email accounts. I was pretty much mortified and anxious about it.

Though I know it sounds trite and repetitive, you just have to give it time for the pain to lessen. <3

Also, yes, I've always told my peeps to get their affairs in order (despite of how morning it might sound when (general) you are in your 40s or younger.)

You and yours are in my thoughts.