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Thank you Mikeyway for posting a photo of some excellent new boots. I hope you'll continue to wear them forever, and you know, if you wanted to you could go for the whole eyeliner thing again too that would be great. I know, not going to happen but a girl can dream
Anyone watching The Boys on Amazon? It's an interesting take on superheroes and how behind the masks they can be mean, bad and flawed people. I'm only two episodes in but am enjoying it so far. Though, none of the characters, apart from Starlight, are that likeable.
James was sent home from work again yesterday. He's been at the doctors this morning, and amazingly the blood lady managed to get four full vials. Seriously, in all the years I've been attending appointments with him no one has done that, usually they end up having to go in his foot and manage to get at most, half a tube. Hopefully, these complete blood tests will show any issues until then he has to keep on with counselling and his work has pretty much said to not go back until he's fully up to it. Understandably, his mental health is pretty much in the gutter right now.
But, he's doing all he can do. Is going to the doctors, counsellors, trying to make lifestyle changes. For now, that has to be enough.
Anyone watching The Boys on Amazon? It's an interesting take on superheroes and how behind the masks they can be mean, bad and flawed people. I'm only two episodes in but am enjoying it so far. Though, none of the characters, apart from Starlight, are that likeable.
James was sent home from work again yesterday. He's been at the doctors this morning, and amazingly the blood lady managed to get four full vials. Seriously, in all the years I've been attending appointments with him no one has done that, usually they end up having to go in his foot and manage to get at most, half a tube. Hopefully, these complete blood tests will show any issues until then he has to keep on with counselling and his work has pretty much said to not go back until he's fully up to it. Understandably, his mental health is pretty much in the gutter right now.
But, he's doing all he can do. Is going to the doctors, counsellors, trying to make lifestyle changes. For now, that has to be enough.
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Date: 2019-11-22 04:42 pm (UTC)I’ve heard of it but not seen it. I think I added it to my list of doom
The blood lady has skills to get that much. I hope he’ll be ok though *hugs*
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Date: 2019-11-22 04:59 pm (UTC)You should do, it's interesting, very gritty and bloody and an unusual take on superheroes.
I was amazed at her getting that blood. Then she said today was her last day at the doctors as it was too long of a commute from her home. So, we found a great blood lady only to lose her within minutes.
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Date: 2019-11-22 05:47 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-30 10:08 am (UTC)I have to be honest, I still haven't finished it, but from the episodes I've seen, yeah, it is dark. I think it makes it even darker that the bad stuff is done by superheroes, and that feels so wrong.
Unrelated to the show. I hope you and your boys had a good Christmas.
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Date: 2019-11-22 06:15 pm (UTC)I hope all that blood means they'll be able to come up with some answers for James; how discouraging to be sent home from work again
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Date: 2019-12-30 10:06 am (UTC)Even now I can't believe they got all of that blood from James. And thankfully, it did come up with some answers.
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Date: 2019-11-22 08:48 pm (UTC)I feel for James so much! Give him a big hug from me and tell him I'm sending him all the good thoughts I can find.
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Date: 2019-11-23 11:48 am (UTC)I will do. He's crashed out on the couch again now but despite the rain I'm going to drag him out soon for a bit fresh air.
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Date: 2019-11-25 06:43 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-15 11:47 am (UTC)Yes! It was one of my favourite things too. I mean, he can obviously afford clothes and has been doing so while not in the band. So why the constant wearing or merch? Laziness? Can't be bothered with washing his clothes?
Though tbh, I'd be tempted to just grab new stuff if I could, too.
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Date: 2019-11-22 09:36 pm (UTC)And I hope you got that miracle nurse's name for future reference...
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Date: 2019-11-23 11:49 am (UTC)I don't know how she gained her mad skills, but they were amazing.
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Date: 2019-11-23 04:10 am (UTC)i watched the boys recently! it's very....like i can tell the original inspo for it was A Man (like legit does it pass the bechdel test? i don't think it does, despite featuring multiple women. also every guy's motivation is a dead girlfriend), but i do enjoy anything that subverts the idea of superheroes in the world of late capitalism. i also really love that they did well by starlight!
all my well wishes and thoughts to you and james <333
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Date: 2019-11-23 11:56 am (UTC)It was Corey who recommended The Boys to me, and I suspect he's the main targetted demographic as a young twenties male. I also agree that it doesn't pass the bechdel test. But, saying that, it has enough going for it that I enjoyed anyway.
Like I said in the post it's an interesting take on superheroes, and how sometimes they really aren't what they seem. I also like it has stuff I love reading about in MCU fic, in that they all live together, but in this case the living together isn't a good thing. More stress, enemies, manipulation and having to be on guard at all times than hair braiding and movie nights.
So yeah, not perfect but entertaining.
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Date: 2019-11-23 07:08 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-15 11:37 am (UTC)I have to admit I've stalled watching it lately. Like you the premise was intriguing, and I still like the idea. But I'm finding the ratio of likeable characters to the totally unlikeable ones too unbalanced.
Which is a shame as I'm always down for new shows about superheroes. I may watch the rest at some point but have no hurry to do so at the moment.
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Date: 2019-11-23 07:09 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-12-15 11:16 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2019-11-23 08:15 pm (UTC)Poor James, that's not at all fair for him.
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Date: 2019-12-15 11:17 am (UTC)James really has had a bad run of things toward the end of this year.
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Date: 2019-11-24 11:42 am (UTC)I watched a bit of an episode of The Boys because of Karl Urban, but that's about it.
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Date: 2019-12-15 11:38 am (UTC)I watched a bit of an episode of The Boys because of Karl Urban, but that's about it.
Ha, I should have guessed you'd watch for that. I still haven't finished it, maybe one day.
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Date: 2019-11-24 09:36 pm (UTC)I watched The Boys (and also read the comic book it is based on. Though that was a few years ago) and liked it just okay. OTOH, it has Karl Urban and he's one of those actors who will always get a pass from me. OTOH, although I do think it has a couple of interesting points (seeing how the past 5 or so years have become the Age of Superheroes in mainstream media), the bulk of ideas and opinions it serves feel about a decade old?
FTR, there's going to be a second season so, hey, at least more Karl Urban?
Many, many warm hugs to James. Please let him know we're all rooting for him. <3
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Date: 2019-12-15 11:44 am (UTC)I love seeing him in eyeliner, but I wouldn't be surprised if he had hated wearing it in the end. I suspect it could have been one of those things where a bit of eye makeup was a good thing when he was doing his whole scene king thing. But the more time went on it very much became part of his image. Oh well, I'll always have the photos.
I've stalled watching The Boys. I liked it well enough and it has a premise that's interesting but I started to find the balance of likeable to unlikeable characters unbalanced. It seemed very black and white with few shades of grey, and it's those shades I like. Though, as I haven't seen to the end yet I realise more could be revealed yet.
No doubt I will watch to the end at some point. Probably when I'm done watching wall to wall Christmas movies and festive baking specials.
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Date: 2019-11-25 04:22 am (UTC)In re eyeliner, isn't that what fic is for? :)
I'm sorry to hear of James being unwell. I hope the blood tests do provide some helpful information. And that he gets the best of whatever kind of care is indicated.
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Date: 2019-12-15 11:44 am (UTC)And yes, that's exactly what fic is for. All the eyeliner for MWay!
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Date: 2019-11-25 06:40 pm (UTC)Ooof. Hugs to James. That shit is so tough. <3
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Date: 2019-12-15 11:45 am (UTC)