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turpsThank you pushkin666 for the postcard, I always love getting fun mail ♥
Houghton Feast started on Friday. It's a time of year I really like, the fair sets up in a field next to the park, so I can hear the faint sound of music, and the air is full of the scent of candy floss and hot dogs. Community events happen, art shows and the parade and craft fairs in the church, fireworks on Monday, the ox roasted outside and sold as sandwiches on the Saturday. All things that have happened since I was a kidlet; and I'm missing them all.
We did go for a walk/roll to the park on Saturday, but first thing, well before the crowds started to arrive, so got to see things setting up, and got some fresh air too but that will be it, as the Feast is just too crowded to safely attend with James without worrying he'll be knocked, or get gridlocked by people.
James is. Well, he's unable to do a thing for himself right now, plus, all his other aches and pains are making themselves known, not surprising considering along with the broken elbow, he managed to bruise his ribs, bash himself on the head and graze down the side of his head, too. His shoulder is all black bruising with yellow bruises appearing from the top of the back slab, so goodness knows what his actual arm looks like.
I ordered a hospital overbed table, which arrived a couple of days ago and is a help as he can keep his phone etc on top of it, and wheel it back easily. But the main issue he's having is eating. He's broken the elbow of his good arm/hand, the other hand has hardly any grip at all, and the back slab means lifting a fork up to his mouth is impossible right now. My brother is making some kind of device that will hopefully help -- not sure of the technicalities but it involves a rest for a fork that's on a swivel. But, at least we're back to sleeping in bed, where he's sleeping propped up with one of those big cushions with arms, and not in the recliners downstairs.
We're both hoping things will be a bit easier for him when he gets the backslab taken off as it's very bulky and heavy, and, fingers crossed, it'll get changed to a more lightweight cast. Sadly, despite the consultant at A&E saying that appointment would be about a week, it's not until the 16th, so there's a bit to wait yet.
Today we've been to the doctor so James could get a sick note for work. She gave one for four weeks without even thinking about it and said to extend later over the telephone, so I get the feeling he won't be back to work this year. James also asked about extra pain killers, but sadly, as he's on really powerful stuff anyway she couldn't prescribe anything without the risk of hugely overdosing. So, we'll have to keep up with his usual stuff with alternate over the counter stuff to top up.
Normally, as it's Monday, I would have gone to weight management class at this point, especially as the gym where it's held is very close to the doctors, but Rosie had texted saying she was ill, so all we had to do was walk back into town. Now, I like where I live but to get to my house from the medical practice is all uphill, so it was a bit of a slog coming back. But it was a lovely day, and we broke the walk by going to the chemist for our flu and covid jabs, so those are done too.
One thing, as we're without a car for at least a fortnight, I'll have calves of steel before this is all over.
Another thing, this has shown we've got lovely friends, family and neighbours. So many have offered help if needed, though thankfully, we live so close to the main shopping street it's easy to get anything we need. Especially so, as experience has shown, that when James is off for a long time one of the best things I can do for him is to make sure we get out of the house, even if it's just for a short walk. So, a trip to the shops is a good thing, though I did ask Kayleigh to get the sack of cat litter. I'm not that daft I'd attempt to bring that home myself.
Other little good things. I really enjoyed the Strictly movie week and someone is reading through my old bandom stuff and leaving comments, which is just lovely.
pushkin666 for the postcard, I always love getting fun mail ♥Houghton Feast started on Friday. It's a time of year I really like, the fair sets up in a field next to the park, so I can hear the faint sound of music, and the air is full of the scent of candy floss and hot dogs. Community events happen, art shows and the parade and craft fairs in the church, fireworks on Monday, the ox roasted outside and sold as sandwiches on the Saturday. All things that have happened since I was a kidlet; and I'm missing them all.
We did go for a walk/roll to the park on Saturday, but first thing, well before the crowds started to arrive, so got to see things setting up, and got some fresh air too but that will be it, as the Feast is just too crowded to safely attend with James without worrying he'll be knocked, or get gridlocked by people.
James is. Well, he's unable to do a thing for himself right now, plus, all his other aches and pains are making themselves known, not surprising considering along with the broken elbow, he managed to bruise his ribs, bash himself on the head and graze down the side of his head, too. His shoulder is all black bruising with yellow bruises appearing from the top of the back slab, so goodness knows what his actual arm looks like.
I ordered a hospital overbed table, which arrived a couple of days ago and is a help as he can keep his phone etc on top of it, and wheel it back easily. But the main issue he's having is eating. He's broken the elbow of his good arm/hand, the other hand has hardly any grip at all, and the back slab means lifting a fork up to his mouth is impossible right now. My brother is making some kind of device that will hopefully help -- not sure of the technicalities but it involves a rest for a fork that's on a swivel. But, at least we're back to sleeping in bed, where he's sleeping propped up with one of those big cushions with arms, and not in the recliners downstairs.
We're both hoping things will be a bit easier for him when he gets the backslab taken off as it's very bulky and heavy, and, fingers crossed, it'll get changed to a more lightweight cast. Sadly, despite the consultant at A&E saying that appointment would be about a week, it's not until the 16th, so there's a bit to wait yet.
Today we've been to the doctor so James could get a sick note for work. She gave one for four weeks without even thinking about it and said to extend later over the telephone, so I get the feeling he won't be back to work this year. James also asked about extra pain killers, but sadly, as he's on really powerful stuff anyway she couldn't prescribe anything without the risk of hugely overdosing. So, we'll have to keep up with his usual stuff with alternate over the counter stuff to top up.
Normally, as it's Monday, I would have gone to weight management class at this point, especially as the gym where it's held is very close to the doctors, but Rosie had texted saying she was ill, so all we had to do was walk back into town. Now, I like where I live but to get to my house from the medical practice is all uphill, so it was a bit of a slog coming back. But it was a lovely day, and we broke the walk by going to the chemist for our flu and covid jabs, so those are done too.
One thing, as we're without a car for at least a fortnight, I'll have calves of steel before this is all over.
Another thing, this has shown we've got lovely friends, family and neighbours. So many have offered help if needed, though thankfully, we live so close to the main shopping street it's easy to get anything we need. Especially so, as experience has shown, that when James is off for a long time one of the best things I can do for him is to make sure we get out of the house, even if it's just for a short walk. So, a trip to the shops is a good thing, though I did ask Kayleigh to get the sack of cat litter. I'm not that daft I'd attempt to bring that home myself.
Other little good things. I really enjoyed the Strictly movie week and someone is reading through my old bandom stuff and leaving comments, which is just lovely.
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Date: 2024-10-07 01:58 pm (UTC)But holy moly at all the damage James did to himself with that fall. It does sound very painful. I hope his recovery is quick. It's really cool that your brother can make a fork contraption for James to use!
I can't recall, why will you be without your vehicle for so long?
You've reminded me that I need kitty litter! (I wouldn't want to carry that very far, either.)
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Date: 2024-10-07 02:17 pm (UTC)I'm interested to see the fork contraption myself. I just hope that what he can see in his mind can be done on a practical level. But, best to try than not I guess.
Problem with the car is I can't drive. Rosie is adapted for James to drive, and if he'd damaged his other arm he still could drive easily one-handed, but with his dominant hand out of action, right now that's impossible. I did start to learn, but did so in our car at the time, which was still a big SUV and it frightened me. It's times like this I wish I'd stuck at it, though.
Sacks of kitty litter are so heavy!
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Date: 2024-10-07 05:59 pm (UTC)Also, I am vindicated! There were several times I got confused when you were talking about Rosie from exercise class because I was sure that's what you'd named your new vehicle, lol!
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Date: 2024-10-09 03:18 pm (UTC)There were several times I got confused when you were talking about Rosie from exercise class because I was sure that's what you'd named your new vehicle, lol!
Lol! That's caught a couple of people out. I couldn't believe it when I realised Rosie from exercise class' name.
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Date: 2024-10-07 03:22 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2024-10-07 03:52 pm (UTC)Living next to shopping is so convenient! The main shopping street is only a few minutes walk away, and the Lidl even closer, literally just over the road. It's just a shame we live on a hill with a busy road at the bottom, so to get to the shop have to walk to the bridge, go over it and then down the zig zag ramps. If it wasn't for the hill I could be there in less than a minute, as it is, I often shake my fists when I'm in Lidl carpark and looking at my house which is just there, so close and yet so far *g*
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Date: 2024-10-07 11:09 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2024-10-07 04:30 pm (UTC)I'm sorry to hear James is in such pain and having a tough time of it. I hope he heals up quickly and things can get back to normal.
I'm glad you have others who can help when needed. Kitty litter is heavy and a pain to lug very far. I'm glad Kayleigh can assist. I'd have to rely on Amazon or Chewy!
Yes, always interesting to see someone reading through older fanfic. I'm glad they do, though. I do find that most kudos left for my PopSlash stories are anonymous. Interesting. Always nice to know that someone is enjoying your fanfic!
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Date: 2024-10-09 03:35 pm (UTC)I really hope he heals fast too. It's a shame he couldn't be given more pain meds, but at the same time, understood why the doctor couldn't prescribe them.
I was so glad Kayleigh brought the litter. You're right, it is heavy and a pain to carry.
Always nice to know that someone is enjoying your fanfic!
It is. The comments are always lovely to receive.
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Date: 2024-10-07 04:57 pm (UTC)it sounds like his injuries really did a number - I hope you can manage pain relief, and that he heals quickly
it's good you have folks who'll help out - having someone who's able to bring things (like heavy cat litter) is so helpful
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Date: 2024-10-09 03:22 pm (UTC)What made the fall worse was the bottom of the stairs are only about a foot away from the solid outside wall. So, James hit his head on that, and the textured wallpaper caused the grazes. But, it could have been a hell of a lot worse, which I remind myself of.
Yeah, I was glad to get the cat litter delivered by Kayleigh. No way could I manage to carry it from the shops myself.
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Date: 2024-10-07 06:08 pm (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2024-10-07 07:35 pm (UTC)I'm feeling so sorry for James! Hopefully at least the bruises will heal soon so he won't be in quite so much pain and that his elbow will also heal swifly and without cpmplications *sends him lots and lots of healthy vibes*
All hail your future calves of steel!
It's so good to hear everyone around you are being so helpful!
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Date: 2024-10-09 03:11 pm (UTC)I hope his elbow is healing as we speak. It's been a week so all his bruises are at peak colourfulness. They make me wince in sympathy each time I see them.
Everyone really has been helpful. Which I'd expect from family and friends, but all the neighbours was unexpected.
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Date: 2024-10-08 11:58 am (UTC)Poor James - and poor you - I'm glad you're getting things to work, bit by bit, but what a difficult time you're having right now *sending all the well, peaceful wishes in your general direction*
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Date: 2024-10-09 01:48 pm (UTC)Thank you <3
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Date: 2024-10-09 08:55 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2024-10-13 02:35 pm (UTC)Thank you <3