I hate fights like that too. We usually bicker, because personality wise James and I are miles apart, but that's in fun really.
The big fights are horrific because it's the people that you love that have the ability to tear you to pieces.
It is pretty sad that you'd rather kick the shit out of someone than be torn up emotionally by them, but it's also understandable. Physical hurts heal a hell of a lot faster than emotional ones.
If you get hurt or beat someone up it's done and over with. If someone attacks you emotionally it's hard to forget and the hurt can fester inside.
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Date: 2004-01-15 05:58 am (UTC)The big fights are horrific because it's the people that you love that have the ability to tear you to pieces.
It is pretty sad that you'd rather kick the shit out of someone than be torn up emotionally by them, but it's also understandable. Physical hurts heal a hell of a lot faster than emotional ones.
If you get hurt or beat someone up it's done and over with. If someone attacks you emotionally it's hard to forget and the hurt can fester inside.