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Yesterday I asked for good thoughts for the passing of one of our own.

This morning Lucy peacefully passed away.

I didn't know her when she was writing as Mona Ramsey, she was Reggie when I first joined popslash way back in the day. While our main fandoms had changed we stayed mutually friended, and she was a person that was always there on my flist. She was an amazing woman and she's going to be a huge miss, especially to her friends.

It made me think today. I've been on LJ for a very long time, I've been reading some people on my flist for many, many years, I've watched families grow, people go through school and jobs, change fandoms, live their lives and share them online. One of the first pictures I shared of Corey on here was taken at his reception class at school. Now next term he's doing his GCSEs. Many of you have watched him grow too, and while we may never physically meet live journal and the internet have entwined our lives. Sometimes only for a while, other times much longer.

Many people pour scorn on online friendships, talking about predators and axe murderers and so many other negative things, and I say screw that. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but you guys. You're all stars. Thank you for sharing your time.

Date: 2010-07-25 03:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] truekat.livejournal.com
Wow! You said all of that so beautifully! And THIS is why I've come back to LJ! It IS home! It's where I feel comfortable! It's where I have friends who accept me as I am. Nobody makes fun because I'm older. No one criticizes me because I'm overweight. Everyone accepts me even if I'm stuck in a time warp of *NSYNC time! I don't get picked on for saying how much I adore JC Chasez! This is where I feel like there's someone who really does care and does read what I write and does listen to my laughter, tears, jokes, and problems! Online is not all horrible! Here in LJ we've proven that! Thank YOU for sharing your space with us, and for being there FOR us! I'm so glad you put this in here! :)

Date: 2010-07-25 11:59 am (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] turps33.livejournal.com
This. So much this.

I know I can say things here and there'll be people who'll listen. It doesn't matter if it's the most shallow of fannish thing or something deeply personal, they'll be there.

Our community is a good one, and some of my best friends are from online. People who don't understand that, well they're the ones missing out.

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